Relationships

I know this is supposed to be about internet marketing and I got way side tracked by all my seminars but I have some other stuff on my mind so I am just going to express myself here.

This weekend I have been attending a relationship seminar by PAX. You can visit them at Understand Men.

The first day of this seminar I was shocked about how much I learned. Today I became a little emotional and tense.

I have always known what a great guy I have and how fortunate I am to have him in my life. Today I realized that I don't fully express that to him so that he can experience my gratitude and admiration.

I was depressed by how naive I was, not only for him but all men.

I am so happy that I had a new friend with me, Crystal. Who quickly helped me clear the haze and mental anxiety of my past.

I understand why it is so hard to grow, when you are going through the initial eye opening experience, sometimes it can be very painful but as soon the "newness" sorts itself out, things become..... Even more beautiful than before. IT IS ALWAYS WORTH IT!

I don't have any other words to describe this, other than how grateful I am to not only be attending these workshops from PAX (Relationships w/men, although the results are always personal growth) and Peak Potentials (Personal growth in ALL areas) but also the people I meet in these workshops and the person I am becoming.

Because of the work these people do, everyday I am a better and better person for anyone and everyone in my life. I am excited to take part in helping others grow and become who they want to be.

I am also grateful for all those that I have met and yet to meet that are like minded (growth). Every single conversation is a growing and life changing experience!

I hope that whenever I am feeling under the weather, that I remember all these things. My beautiful son who impresses me daily. My absolutely amazing boyfriend who loves me for me and supports me in all that I do. For my friends and loved ones. For the ability to read, write, attend workshops, learn, and grow. As well as the ability to help others transform their lives..

And the journey has just begun!

Thank you for taking part of this,
Tiffany

Train the trainer experience!

Its been a while!!!

After Train the Trainer, everything in my life was very "backed up". I had to catch up on school, work, spend time with my son, boyfriend, etc..

Sorry it took so long for me to write about it!

I have been to several of Peak Potentials programs and will be attending several more. But this one was by far the most intense for me. I knew it was going to be.

The first Time I attended Millionaire Mind Intensive, I knew out of all their programs I wanted to attend "The enlightened warrior camp" and "Train the Trainer."

I signed up for Enlightened Warrior (I will be attending it this August) but I didn't even consider signing up for Train the Trainer. When I realized at the Life Directions workshop that I didn't sign up for TT1(Train the Trainer) because it scared the "jeepers" out of me, I decided to sign up before my head could get in the way. So that is how I got to TT1.

Now I see why it scared me. I was completely out of my comfort zone the entire time. No one seemed as scared as I did one of the nights. I don't want to give too much away but we had some "fun" nights. Singing, dancing, letting go and just enjoying life. Well one time during these events I just cried. I couldn't help it, I was so scared but I did it anyways. I don't know how I got on that stage (like I said I am trying not to give too much away) or how I lasted up there, and to be honest it is still a haze to me. But I did it!!!!

I seem to be much more aware of when I care what people think of me and also aware of my hesitations to be myself. They offer Train the Trainer 2 and would love to go, and I plan to in the future but I would like to attend warrior camp first and work on myself a little more before I go to TT2. I did have a huge revelation (which is why I love Peak potentials so much, they seem to be good at this) at TT1. I realized I am a very serious girl and its hard for me to lighten up and just enjoy life.

Sadness, frowning, anger, etc.. are easy for me to express and feel. But I feel embarrassed to smile and be happy, almost like it is wrong. Logically I know this its not wrong to feel good or happy but there is something that really scares me and holds me back from expressing and experiencing positive emotions. This is such a huge realization for me. I can now work on trying to laugh, smile, enjoy, and have fun more often. The first step to anything is knowing exists in the first place. Because of TT1, I am already 10 steps ahead of where I was with this.

I will lighten up and just enjoy life and have fun!!!!!

I can definitely feel the difference already!

OH YEAH!!!!!! I almost forgot.. Peak potentials teaches you a way of "training" (speaking in front of others) that keeps your audience engaged at ALL times. They have very unique ways of teaching it as well. All I must say is that when I did my final presentation, my body and mind automatically did things that they taught us without even thinking about it? Can anyone say "That is awesome!"? :o)

The environment at peak potentials trainers is always very supportive and compassionate. I have met the most amazing people at their events. This time people were passing around a list of numbers and names for support groups. We have already connected through a yahoo group. This is absolutely amazing!!!!

I will talk more about it TT1 later. I am actually off to another three day workshop but not for peak potentials!!!! I am really excited about watching someone else speak. As Rob (The Trainer at TT1) mentioned we will all notice everything a speaker does or DOESN'T DO after TT1!! :o) I might be screaming by the end of this workshop "Please, Let Me At Least High Five Someone!" :o)

We'll catch up soon! I miss writing!!!


Namaste,
Tiffany

Playing with the cam! Recent Pic!

This picture is of my son and I. It is the most recent picture I have of myself.

I am off to the gym and then time to get ready to leave for the seminar tomorrow.

I must say that as I learn more and more about internet marketing I discover there is more and more to learn. I know I need to get my page up and running soon if I am going to be able to learn most of the other things especially by my goal date.

I can see there still is a study amount of readers, I would really love to hear your comments!

Love,
Tiffany

HELLO!~~~

I am getting more and more excited. Although I don't have my site up yet because I need to get a little more clear about some of the content, it all is coming together.

I leave monday to go to an intensive seminar called "Train the Trainer" by T.Harv Eker. He wrote the book Secrets of a Millionaire Mind And conducts well known seminars that help change your financial blueprint and set you up for success. Those events are called Millionaire Mind Intensive.

The seminar I am attending is to help with public speaking, conducting my own seminars and stuff along those lines. Pretty much engaging an audience and doing so comfortably and confidently. I love seminars! But this seminar actually creates the most fear in me because I don't know about you guys but just thinking about public speaking makes me nervous.

I will be updating everyone on that when I get back.

Maybe friday or saturday I will be able to get my website up. We'll see! :o) I have been very busy, exercising, homework, work, etc.. But as my energy level keeps rising I know I will have more free time and "motivated" time to dedicate to learning internet marketing.


I did however learn something new today. There is something they call linking, it is one technique they use for SEO (search engine optimization). There is a list of sites you can submit your website url to that MAY help increase traffic to your site.

Bottom line is the more links you have on the web linking back to your website, the more the search engines will like your page! So if you have friends with websites or any other means to get your link onto someone's page, I highly suggest you do that!

It is time for bed now.

Good night,
Tiffany

Excited!!!

I had an appointment with my spiritual coach today. I had decided to talk to her about my challenge of learning internet marketing.

I explained how in order to start learning I must find a niche market so I have a product to market, etc.... And she said why search for what others are looking for, why not build a site and learn to market it with ANYTHING that had to do with what I have a passion for.

Remember when I wrote about the keyword search and how i was disappointed with the results? I had did a search on one of my biggest passions and I did not recieve a desirable result. From what I can tell (remember I am no expert), this particuliar passion (I will tell you what it is soon) did not have a significant amount of searchs. Meaning not very many people were interests in the niche (not a big market).

So I went on to the next thing and never looked back! The last few days this topic has been coming up for me over and over again and I couldn't stop thinking about it. However, I never reconsidered it because there wasn't a significant market for it.

Well....... I am going to go for it!!! I would rather have fun learn to market something I have my heart in, then trying to market something that I don't care for just because it appears to have a huge demand.

I know I have mentioned before that I love growth, self development, etc... Well what I love the most is those "aha" moments. Now what are those "aha" moments?

"Aha" moments or epiphanies are moments of clarity, when you see something from a clear new perspective for the first time, when the blind fold is removed in a certain way, etc...

I LOVE THAT FEELING AND WANT NOTHING MORE THAN TO HELP OTHERS EXPERIENCE THAT WONDERFUL FEELING.

Call it what you want. From pushing past fears, removing the haze, achieving clarity, removing negative beliefs, removing the blind fold, increasing awareness, being more conscious, etc..

I don't know how I will market it or what way I will word it, but it sure is what I will be focusing on!

I am excited.

Although I don't know what contents my site will have on it or what I will be selling or promoting in order for me to see if it is successful, all I know is it feels SOOOOO right!

If you are looking for a niche market, I highly recommend not just jumping on to a keyword search tool, trying to find what everyone is looking for. What are YOU looking for? Follow your heart and then use the tool to refine what resignates with you!

By the way, it turned out my spiritual coach is very familiar with internet marketing, something along the lines of internet marketing is what she did prior to her "heart" work! :O) She even recommended a site builder that is much cheaper than the one I was previously looking at. Her website is www.laurabonilla.com.

Lots of love,
Tiffany

Lagging BUT........

I know I haven't been quite on top of it as I would like to be. However, I have been exercising the last three days which was one of the things I had said I wanted to make sure I do.

I can already feel the difference in my energy level. Today I got up and instead of lounging around as I would normally do and slowly wake up. I jumped out of bed with a list of stuff that I wanted to do. I cleaned up a bit, did some laundry, took my son to his grandpa's and then went to the gym.

I have to work tonight so I don't think I will be able to spend anytime on internet marketing, but I have been reading the book "101 ways to promote your business" at work when it is slow. I also have an idea of what direction I am headed in with a product.

I can see I have an average of 20 readers a day already, I would like to encourage everyone to please leave comments. Be open and honest, a simple hi, a suggestion, yell at me when I am slacking... Whatever!!!

It would really motivate me to be more connected with my readers. And I would love hear what things you guys want to learn or would like to see!!!

If you would like to be updated everytime I post a new blog, click the link on the top right that says subscribe reader. You can choose your options of how you are notified.

I look forward to making some real progress real soon and for those of you along for the ride, I promise this will be a learning and inspirational experience!

Namaste,
Tiffany

Internet marketing workshops, seminars, etc..

This is more of a request for information or suggestions.

I have done several searches looking for a workshop or course on internet marketing in my area(anywhere in california). However most that show up have past already. I can't seem to find anything that will be coming up other than next weekend which I have a public speaking seminar already scheduled.

There has to be more out there!! I will even travel outside the state if i have to.

To begin I was looking for a workshop/seminar that would be for a newbie. A one to three day seminar would be ideal. If I have to travel far it would have to be in June.

If I find anything I will post them here for others to be able to gain from it as well.

I will post again later today,
Tiffany

Slight Disappointment!

I am kind of disappointed right now.

I invested quite a bit of time using a program called BeBiz to do some keyword research and came up extremely empty handed. I assumed the tool at BeBiz was going to analyze my results just like WordTracker does and unfortunately I was wrong.

I took a lot of time to enter a lot of my interests and do some research about them in that system. It's not that big of a deal, but now I have to go to WordTracker and purchase another keyword search tool and learn that tool (hopefully it won't take too long).

I will let you know how that goes.

I did see a slight trend in some of the searches that pertain to my interests.

If this takes too much more time, without getting a product I will just pick something for the purpose of learning internet marketing!

I have also been thinking about building a free site and just offering information for now. I could still track how many visitors visit my site, only all of the paid marketing strategies will have to be learned at a lose.

I will decide what I am going to do by tomorrow!

Good night,
Tiffany

Keywords! Interests, Passions.

I did this work yesterday but didn't have time to post it in a blog.

So here it is.

First I wrote a list of all my interests, passions, stuff I enjoy learning about, things people would come to me for advice for, etc.. These are all good ways to find a market that would keep your interest and focus. I know I will definitely need that!

Here is a shortened list, I don't want to bore you! I omitted anything that I find irrelevent, like spending time with loved ones, etc..

Growing
Progression
Learning
Human Behavior
New Experiences
New Relationships
The mind
The brain
New outlooks/perspectives
Spirituality
Energy
Quantum Physics
Metaphysics
Pushing past self limitations
increasing Awareness or being conscious
Pushing past fear
Internet marketing
Financial freedom
Increasing strength
Increasing love
Increasing inner peace
Increasing quality of my life and others
Self improvement
Personal development
Roller skating
Dynamics of relationships
Rising to full potential
Life
Recognizing subconscious habits and patterns
The law of attraction
Discipline
Investment
Real-estate
The thought process
Angels

Ok I will stop there. My next step is to find action words from all of these interests. I have began to search for action words for these interests and passions, however I have noticed most seem to be action words already.

Now I have to find problems within these interests. I have posted on some group forums that have some of these interests, asking them what problems they encounter with these things.

I tried to come up with a few myself but still come up with very general terms. Such as:
Fear and Doubt
Lack of Focus
Lack of Dedication

My challenge now is to come up with a problem people face within one of some of these interests. Example what problems or issues do people face when they try to grow or progress in life? I am hoping the results from the group forums will help me out a bit in this area.

I will post my findings and then I will have to use a keyword tool to see which phrases/problems will be a good market.
Good Market = A lot of searches for those keywords without a lot of websites already serving that niche market.

Wish me luck,
Tiffany